The circle of life, and death, at the resort

   If you are a frequent reader of this blog you know how much we love being at the Voyager RV Resort in Tucson. Over the 8 years we have been coming here we have made so many good friends. Truth be told one of the main reasons we keep returning is the friends and relationships we have made here.

     Each year when we arrive we have many happy reunions with old friends. Sadly, because of the nature of the resort we inevitably have to say good-bye to some of those friends. This year has been particularly difficult as two close friends died over the summer and fall.

RIP Don and Walt

     In the previous year it was the same thing, except one of those we lost was not from dying but from health reasons that kept them returning. Hap and Ann were the best and it was Hap that taught me how to do some simple wood carving.

    This year Walt, the man we always closed the season by having dinner with before we left and Don, died during the off season. Today, Sunday, January 20, we attended back-to-back memorial services for both men. We had a chance to meet their families and listen to more details of their lives than we knew previously.

    One of them, Walt, was 10 years older than me, and Don was a year younger and like me had served in the Navy. Both men were part of the Men’s Bible Study here and if you recall the story, it was Walt that always lent me his long ladder so I could get on the top of my trailer to do the work I needed to do before storing the trailer.

A Roadrunner at Sweetwater

    It was also Walt who used to ask me to come and pick the lemons off his prolific lemon tree. He would give us a couple and donate the rest to a local food bank. The picking always left me with shredded skin as the thorns of the tree tore through my thin flesh like a hot knife through butter.

   As I get older these memorial services seem to come at an ever increasing rate.

   But the week wasn’t all sadness as life goes on in the desert. On Monday, I went on the easy hike and Joan got checked out for volunteering at the Voyager medical clinic.  Monday night we attended Meet Me at Maynard’s and I won a $25 gift certificate to a local restaurant in the drawing.

   During the afternoon Joan and I went shopping  - separately. Joan planned this shopping trip like a military maneuver. She had her list for Walmart and gave me mine for Fry’s (Kroger). I picked up some really good meat bargains and she got the rest of the groceries.   I picked up some nice steaks, pork roasts, ground beef and some produce that was on sale. The receipt said I saved $63. More important, Joan said I did good.

    I returned to Walmart where Joan had completed her shopping and we headed home making the most of the limited time we had.

Seven Falls

    On Tuesday, the hiking group went on a 7-mile trek along the Wild Burro Trail near Dove Mountain. It’s a bit of drive there, but the hike is well worth the drive. Tuesday night Joan made her wonderful scalloped potatoes and we brought them to the weekly potluck.

    Wednesday we kind of hung around the resort. Joan did some laundry and then on Wednesday night we went to the concert at the resort. “The Cowboy Way” turned out to be a pretty good show even though Joan’s favorite music does not usually involved country or western tunes. The three musicians were excellent on the guitar and the music was wonderful and “not twangy” which is the kind of country and western music Joan doesn’t like.

    Thursday brought my Men’s Bible study and later the Bible study I teach on Thursday night for a mixed group of people. Joan has been faithfully attending her aquacise class on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday as well as her Friday Woman’s Bible study.

    A small group of new people in the park asked if I would lead them on a hike to Seven Falls on Friday. Two couples and four singles, including me, headed out early Friday for the Falls, which is in Bear Canyon, which is part of the Sabino Canyon National Park.

Cotamundi wanting snacks

Despite the current government shutdown the trails are open and accessible although the recent rains and snow in the mountains have made the seven water crossings along the river very difficult for some folks to do.

     We took our time and only a couple folks got a little wet during the crossings. The payoff was that the Seven Falls were full of water and everyone enjoyed eating lunch in such an idyllic spot. We plan to do some future hikes together as well.  At the Seven Falls area we spotted two cotamundis (weird looking racoon creatures) begging for snacks. I told the group I charge extra for finding wildlife.

    Some folks don’t enjoy hiking with the Tuesday group because of the speed of the group. There is often not time to stop and take pictures at the pace we go so these extra hikes give folks a chance to move a little slower and stop and smell the cactus.

    For once we had a quiet Friday night with no organized activities planned so when I got home from the hike Joan announced we were going to the resort restaurant for fish fry. The fish fry was good, but certainly not up to Buffalo fish fry standards. But Joan didn’t have to cook and I didn’t have to wash dinners so there’s that.

Wild Burro hike

    Joan has been wanting to get back to the Sweetwater Nature area north of Tucson so we made time Saturday for that.  Joan is still hoping to see the bobcat that I saw there last year, but we are going to have to go earlier in the day to see it.

     We did see a Roadrunner, a ruddy duck, a plethora of coots, a hawk, a mallard, a green heron and a small woodpecker, so it wasn't a complete bust.

    We stopped at Walmart on the home to do a little grocery shopping and then went to the Retro Rockets dance Saturday night.

    The Retro Rockets are a very popular group down here and they packed the ballroom with 350 people for dancing.

    Sunday was church and the two memorials already discussed here.  In case you’ve been wondering the weather here is turning for the better and on Sunday it was 76 degrees and sunny.